This is the hardest of all: to close the open hand out of love, and keep modest as a giver.
One is necessary, one is a piece of fate, one belongs to the whole, one is the whole β there exists nothing which could judge, measure, compare, condemn our being, for that would be to judge, measure, compare, condemn the wholeβ¦But nothing exists apart from the whole!
The maturity of manβthat means, to have reacquired the seriousness that one had as a child at play.
To leave is to suffer,to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering.
And how does one basically recognize good development? In that a well-developed man does our senses good: that he is carved from wood which is hard, delicate, and sweet-smelling, all at the same time.
Let the young soul survey its own life with a view of the following question: βWhat have you truly loved thus far? What has ever uplifted your soul, what has dominated and delighted it at the same time?
Shared joys make a friend not shared sufferings.