Tamora Pierce

Sarra looked at her daughter and said reproachfully, 'Speaking of war, I never raised you to be always fighting and killing. That's not woman's work.'It's needful, Ma. You taught me a woman has to know how to defend herself.'I never!' gasped Sarra, indignant.'You taught me when you were murdered in your own house,' Daine said quietly.

Fear is a good thing. It mean you're paying attention.

Thus went my first Court Day.I think I'm going to puke.