It's easier to fall back into the same old patterns of hate and retribution, because at least then we're doing something.

"Happiness is the most natural thing in the world when you have it, and the slowest, strangest, most impossible thing when you don't. It's like learning a foreign language: You can think about the words all you want, but you'll never be able to speak it until you suck up your courage and say them out loud."

Dan Wells