A delicate balance is required: keep the penitent tautly close to the point of recognizing sin, and then allow the relief of that pressure to flow through forgiveness. Confession increases this tautness, only to clear the path for release.

"While the memory of guilt is far from pleasant (like 'wormwood and gall'), it has the curative intent of restoring us into an awareness of the constancy of God's love, new every morning. God's mercy is not spent even with our worst misdeeds."

Thomas C. Oden

"The faithful have no dread of using the traditional language of the church. Terms like incarnation and resurrection need to be explained, not avoided."

Thomas C. Oden